Dating a married man in an open marriage Montral sex chat
His enthusiasm for marriage was lacking (he did little to hide that), but it was clearly important for his fiancé, who wanted an event to commemorate their union.
He struck me as “good boyfriend material.”We discussed what it meant to be poly and to openly love many partners at a time. It sounded complicated.“If you and your fiancé have an open relationship, why get married? To me, marriage is an agreement, a commitment to exclusivity, a promise.
How does the girl you see casually feel about all this? He hesitated to admit it, perhaps feeling the need to defend this lifestyle and its quirks.
She walked out on him at dinner last time they met. At first that wasn’t OK, but it was logistically complicated, so they have allowed it. After the date we talked daily, tugging back and forth on definitions and labels and identities, finding they were pliable.
Our sex was more or less kink-free, and sometimes didn't happen at all; his equipment wasn't always…ready to go.
But more than that, it was the knowledge that we were never really going to be boyfriend/girlfriend that brought us to a plateau.